How to Beg for Money: A Guide to Panhandling Excellence

With all the great weather sweeping through Toronto I thought I’d take advantage of it and go for a little run. So, with my running gear on (yes, those ridiculous outfits that make one look like a gay ninja) and my Mp3 player looping Eye of the Tiger over and over again, I set out to exhaust myself for no particular reason except maybe to get some use out of my gay ninja outfit (my straight ninja outfit is in the wash). Midway through my run I was stopped by an older lady waiting for the bus. She asked me for $5 because she had laryngitis. $5 for a temporary affliction? Sure, I’ll throw in a foot rub too. Bullshit. If you’re going to panhandle, do it right. This is the guide to panhandling excellence.

#1. Find a high traffic area. This increases your odds of having more people drop change in your cup, and more money is (DUH!) the goal of panhandling. Do people still say “DUH”? They did at one time though, right?

#2. If you’re going to ask for money, don’t ask for spare change. Ask for a reasonable, specific amount. Studies have shown that asking for say, 37 cents, is much more effective than asking for spare change.  Think about past situations where someone asked for a quarter, or 50 cents. I’m much more likely to help someone reach a specific goal even if I don’t exactly know what reaching that goal means to them. By the way, I’m short 78 cents for a mini bag of Zesty Doritos. Can someone do me a kindness and make a brutha’s flavored tortilla chip dream come true?

#3. Hand written signs can help if they’re witty, funny or mind blowing. If a sign makes me laugh, I’ll throw some coin in your cup. I was provided with a service, for that you should be compensated.  Some people like to mention God on their sign in some way, but you might alienate Atheists. Your choice. I once saw a sign that said, “Happiness: Only 25 cents.” I thought, what if by some bizarre cosmic magic, this was my one chance to guarantee eternal happiness? I’d be stupid to pass it up.

#4. Get a dog. I’m much more likely to give money to someone with a dog because for some reason, I’m more concerned the dog will go hungry than the homeless person. Maybe that’s because the dog doesn’t have a heroin addiction…I could be wrong, maybe Fido does love the smack.

#5. Work for it. In a big city begging is a competitive business. Hobos need something that makes people want to give them change over the other down on his luck guy sitting on the next corner. Some hold open doors, some offer free newspapers. These two are overdone and not really impressive in any way. I once saw a guy playing an upside down paint bucket like a drum. There was absolutely no rhythm and I’m not sure the man was fully conscious, but he was trying and I respected that. There’s also a girl in Kensington Market who sings Sinead O’Connor songs into a carrot. The laughter and memories she provided were well worth the $2 I gave her.

#6. High pressure sales tactics might work sometimes, but overall they’re not a good idea. You might make people take a different route to work and make your high traffic area a low traffic area. I once had a homeless guy follow me for nearly a block asking for money and being a jerk about it. Why would I want to contribute to this guy living any longer? I don’t have spare change, but I have a spare ‘knee to the groin’ if you keep asking, pal.

#7. Be sick or act sick. If you appear to be sick, people will give you money. Just ask the shaky lady in Toronto! (click here to read about her). This isn’t the most honest way to make money, it’s more for the homeless lawyers and marketing execs.

#8. Be young. Okay, you can’t make someone younger, but I’ve always been more likely to give money to younger homeless people because I’m hoping there’s still a chance for a better life for them. The 78 year old homeless woman isn’t going to turn her life around on my 12 cents.

#9. Stand out and be creative. If you stand out, people will consider you a friend and want to be a repeat contributor. I once made friends with a homeless girl near my work. She and her boyfriend were living in hostels and trying to make ends meet. She was very talkative and inspiring and would show me some of her artwork that she drew in her journal. I’d sit with her sometimes and we’d chew the fat and I even panhandled on her behalf on one occasion (I didn’t make a penny). On the average day, she claimed to make upwards of $10 an hour.  What set her apart? She was young (see #8), kind, but most importantly, she wasn’t asking for change, but handing out resumes (she got change anyway). After a few weeks, she wasn’t there anymore. I hope she and her boyfriend are doing well and aren’t sitting with Fido doing smack.

#10. Give us something to relate to. The panhandler I respected most was a man who sat on the corner of Front and John in Toronto maybe ten years ago. He would read a book while sitting on a milk crate and have a cup out for change. No sales pressure, no begging. Donate if you want, if not, that’s cool too. People loved him, brought him coffee, cigarettes, books and of course, spare change! Did reading a book make him more identifiable? Seem more intelligent?  I don’t know, but it worked.

#11. Say thank you because people don’t owe you anything. So when a passerby gives you something, even a penny, say thanks. Most people are giving away their money to feel better about themselves and the thanks they get in return goes a long way in promoting repeat business. Yes, panhandling is a business. Not the most lucrative business, but for someone with a limited skill set, it can help in buying that next meal (or bottle of malt liquor).

I know having this guide on the internet isn’t very helpful for currently homeless people, but with today’s economy, one of us could be homeless any day now. So maybe you should print this out and keep it with you at all times.

My questions to you are: who are you most likely to give money to and why? Do you have a story about a beggar you’d like to share?

  • best panhandling signs ever:

    My Father was Killed by Ninjas.
    Need Money for Karate Lessons.

    Blame me for all your troubles, one dollar

    Spare change for penis enlargement, I’m a little short

    “Bet you can’t hit me with a quarter!”

    Take a Penny, Leave a Dollar

    Spare change for steel wool, so I can build an army of killer robotic sheep and take over the world

    A guy wearing a dinosaur costume with a sign that said “going extinct.”

  • RockinRuhul


    There’s a beggar by my work who “pretends” to be ill and on crutches…I cought him once without crutches, strolling along college street, all healthy and both legs working great!

    • @RockinRuhul – You have to commend him for sticking to the guide and using rule #7.

      @Irishboy33 – I would definitely give people money for signs like that. Absolutely hilarious.

  • The Rabid Iguana

    I still remember one of the few guys who got money from me. He was smart, and I rewarded him for it.

    It was on Front in front of the Harveys by St. Lawrence Market.

    He was standing by a parking meter with a twonie in his hand. He asked me if I had 2 loonies, and kinda pointed towards the meter.

    I opened my wallet to check. (Game over.)

    I did, in fact, have two loonies. I had them in my freaking hand, when he says to me, “Actually, buddy, I’m homeless, do you have any change?”

    Like, WTF am I going to say here? ‘No, I don’t have any?’

    I gave him the two bucks and have told this story like a hundred times. By my math, he got my two cents worth.

    Didn’t expect to go out on a math pun, but alright, score.

  • The Rabid Iguana

    Oh and for the record – best signs ever.

  • @The Rabid Iguana – sounds like you got schooled. It’s funny how people are more than willing to chip in for a parking meter, but much less likely to give a homeless guy change for food. I guess we can relate to the person who needs change for the parking meter more than we can relate to someone on the street.

  • LOL, cold and funny. What a winning combination!

    I know here in Nashville one has to be careful, cause there are professional beggars, who make a decent living off of tourists. Course there’s also a lot of people in dire straights cause of the economy.

    Favorite sign I’ve seen: “For the price of a cup of coffee, you could get me a cup of coffee”

  • the tim

    Well I’m a panhandler and I find that the best aproach is just stand there looking friendly in a busy spot and people will help you don’t need all the funny sighns just look clean and ask

    • The world needs more funny signs. Please?

  • Pearl

    There is area in my town where people are commonly seen begging at a certain stoplight on the center island. One day while waiting for the light to change I noticed a begger standing with the usual sign in the usual place. I also noticed a couple I had seen begging before sitting in a car in the parking lot next to me. What happened was funny and disturbing all at the same time. The man in the car got out with his sign and proceeded to stand only 5 feet from the other guy! Of course this made the other guy angry and they started arguing loudly! I rolled down my window and yelled “that’s just not right” as the light turned green. I was astounded!! If someone is there already the next begger should move to another intersection. If they don’t respect each other how are we supposed to respect them!!

    • I agree. Beggers need to respect other beggers boundaries. I’m not sure I’d donate to a couple with a car. If they were desperate, they would’ve sold the car ages ago.

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  • Skatehard420

    Times Square, NYC, night time. Every night this same guy has a sign that says “hey, i need money for weed. hey, why lie?” I’ve donated a doller for a picture with the guy. Funniest sign I ever  seen! It really works too, he just stands there and makes between 100-300$ in just a couple of hours.

  • Mike965

    I’ve worked a job since I was 16, I’m 30 now and this is the first time I haven’t been able to find work. I started panhandling outside of our local walmart to get some extra cash to make it by day to day. Sometimes I’ll make $75 in a few hours, sometimes it’s 3 bucks in the same amount of time. What you have to remember is to be humble and greatful.

  • Triggerpuller

    Witty signs dont work for me. After being in war torn countries in middle east, south west asia, africa etc I have seen real starving people they dont have a sense of humor and after 16 hour work day it is hard to feed someone’s habit. I am guessing that i habe less sympathy for folks than most not stoked that i lack that but there it is as the truth.

    What really bothers me is people pretending to be a veteran. As a disabled war vet I’d rather not work all the time in .com world but I do and when I see someone using the vet angle i will give until it hurts but only if they are a real Vet and I’d say 95% of the time they arent. It isnespecially loathesome when they are in fake uniform on memorial day. I see that a lot here in SF.

    I found this article on way to BART and I walked past 2 panhandlers arguing over turf so I was curious about the etiquette.

  • Bobby

    Being truthful I made 200.00 dollars in a four hrs no sign be kind apologize for bothering them and 9 times out of ten they will return and help you I am Cristian and wear my cross I don’t lie to God and I don’t lie to them look into their eyes you’ll know by your conversation if they let you speak they are more likely to give to you. If they ask what you need it for tell the truth.Say sir maam can you help me with anything they might ask you what.Food if they offer do not refuse they will usually give you money and feed you one guy took me shoping said buy whatever you want then the total came to 105.15 he gave the cashier 200 said you keep the change.Also be clean as possible they might say they don’t believe you cause look how your dressed explain you dI don’t want to be in this situation it happened just a bad time and that your trying to get a job because it makes you uncomfortable even asking and always say ty so much and is there anything you could ever do to repay their kindness help them load their car if they wI’ll let you,offer to wash their windows it’s all about your approach if they are a good christian person the will read you by your words and behavior I tell you now tell the truth even if it kills you. I never had to buy gas for a year either one year 10 to 20 mins a nite full tank….I thank God everyday and I give it back any chance I get its the right way it worked for me but that is me.God Bless

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